Thursday, February 28, 2008

Not Now, We're Bonding



When baby arrives, so do the guests. How do you get what you need—and discourage what you don’t—in those first few weeks at home?The time: two weeks postpartum. The players: me, my husband, our new baby...and our friends just in from Boston for the weekend. The scene: me, determined to wow ’em with Bolognese, crawling on all fours to gather a pound of spilled spaghetti, while everyone else laughs over drinks in the living room and our friends’ 5-year-old polishes off the Godiva truffles

—my Godiva truffles.Let’s face it, babies are magnets. It’s like Bill Gates announcing he’s giving away Microsoft shares to all comers—the hordes descend. But, after 40 weeks of pregnancy, interminable hours of labor, and that long final push or C-section, you’re not exactly in party mode. How do you cope? Know what you need—and what you don’t need. Then make a plan to whip those visitors into shape.

Pregnancy - identifying fertile days
Definition
Fertile days are the days a woman is most likely to get pregnant.
See also: Infertility
Information
When trying to conceive a baby, many couples plan intercourse around days 11 to 14 of the woman's 28-day cycle. However, it is often difficult to know exactly when ovulation is going to occur. Doctors recommend that couples who are trying to have a baby have intercourse between days 10 and day 20 of a woman's menstrual cycle. Studies have shown that having intercourse every other day works just as well as having intercourse every day in order to become pregnant.
If you have an irregular menstrual cycle and are no sure when or if you are ovulating, ovulation predictor kit can help. These kits, which can be bought at most drug stores, check for LH (luteinizing hormone) in the urine.

There are other various methods to help detect when you are most likely to be able to conceive a baby.

Evaluating Your Cervical Fluid
Cervical fluid plays protects the sperm and helps it move through the cervix toward the uterus and fallopian tubes. Cervical fluid changes in preparation for ovulation. You will notice clear differences in how it looks and feels over the course of the cycle. Menstrual period occurring (no cervical fluid is present) Vagina is dry (no cervical fluid is present) Sticky/rubbery fluid

Wet/creamy/white fluid -- FERTILE
Slippery/stretchy/clear "egg white" fluid -- VERY FERTILE
Dry (no cervical fluid)

The cervical fluid will be slippery and stretchy on your most fertile days. You can use your fingers to check the consistency of your cervical fluid. Find the fluid inside the lower end of the vagina. Tap your thumb and first finger together -- if the material stretches while you spread your thumb and finger apart, this could mean ovulation is near.

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